Thoughts from Stephanie Sexton

I read a funny article today via yahoo, here some guy writes in talking about how many girls at his college have been leading him on, lying, and seem to have no interest in being tied down in a relationship. That’s not the funny part. The suprising truth that comes in the reply from Steve and Lynelle via the yahoo dating special section.

Steve goes on to explain how today’s women have many more opportunities to find mates, with the internet, myspace, mobile communications, adult dating sites and such that are available today, we have a lot of options and we no longer need to sit around and wait for a boy to call in our small home town like women of so many past generations. With this post feminist mindset and all this communication technlogy we have become material girls who are more interested in playing the field looking for men with money, and more men with money. Some girls I know do take this too far, but who am I to judge? I’m sure there are those who silently judge me.

Is this true? Are we more like men now? Playing the feild, always looking for better and better partners? I suppose this could have something to do with the first time in history that we have more unmarried women in this country than married. I also think we have turned the tables on men finally with the whole “why buy the cow when you get the milk for free” thing. You know that saying means something like “why marry the girl when she’s giving you the pussy already?”

Yep, I know I have turned the tables. Why settle down and be expected to cook and clean for just one guy when I can get nice presents and dinners and dancing from several? Ha ha, bet they never saw this coming. Madonna was on to something, material girls get expensive things, married girls, well I know one that got a new TV, so her hubby can watch football on a big screen.

As things progress I consider changes and having to adapt the surrounding design to life’s changes is an intersting thought. I consider how it is when we want to add things to our lives and to our blogs and how the design is is need of adapting. Sometimes it’s a prettier thing, sometimes the design changes we want to make do not fit well in our current environment, or change other things in ways that we don’t want.

Sometimes we have to deal with the design we have so matter how mixed up it has become.

Fluid designs seem to be best and it appears to me that changes with blogs are easier to get things to fit into.

I came across this article at an adult news site talking about recent scientific studies showing that exercise will help men have better prostate health which leads to better, longer and more fulfilling sex. It is really quite funny. Think about it. As noted in the article, exercise can help prevent heart disease, memory loss, and even colon cancer. I beleive these benefits have been known for some time, yet how many men are rigorisly trying to exercise regularly? I do however believe if it becomes common knowledge that men who exercise get better hard ons and perform better in bed, then there will be many more men finding a way to get some more exercise in thier lives.

Of course I would sweeten the pot if I found that regular exercise would bring about more stamina and harder erections, I would offer an anonymous menage a trois to my lover for keeping an exercise regimen going, that would definitely keep him at the gym more often. Now if we can only get more women to make this offer, the country would have better fit men, and more sex. Time to look into a membership at the local swingers club now, what a great idea!